Marry a wife and be filial to your father? Guo Qianjun: Filial piety is unfilial, and what parents want is not a son s woman

Artist Guo Jun has been married to his wife Xiao Zhu for many years. The two have a cute daughter. The couple has a very good relationship. Guo Jun is also a famous love man in the circle. Not long ago, he was inspired by his face and wrote down his views on "filial piety". He believed that women marrying men is not used to filial piety to their parents-in-law, because filial piety cannot be replaced, "because parents want a son rather than a son's woman."

Guo Qianjun wrote emotionally that women grew up in their own family. Because of love, they spent their whole life choosing to be with a man through a contract. However, she also has her father and mother, and she misses her family, so she shouted, "Please men all over the world be filial to their parents, because filial piety is irreplaceable, and no matter how a daughter-in-law does it, they are actually more than … because parents want a woman with their sons, not a woman with their sons."

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Although it is just a few short sentences, it breaks the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and family. It makes a sound for women in each family, and it also causes great revelations from netizens, "Our parents are filial", "I can't say it right anymore", "Women marry you, not to marry your servant", mothers are worried.

Outsourcing of filial piety means unfilial

In Taiwan society, marriage is not as good as Westerners, but a matter of "two families". Although it is a good thing to be close to the two families, your family is not equal to my family. As a woman stands, I My parents worked hard to raise me, and I deserved to be filial to them. Before marrying my husband, my parents-in-law said to me as strangers. You have never given me anything, and I don’t owe you anything. Why do my daughter-in-law and her parents-in-law become filial to me after marriage?

The companion is willing to take care of her in-laws' family. It's her selfless, not a good thing! The so-called filial piety should be brought to your partner, and all of them are called finding someone, or a specialty worker who is free and legal, and a sensible companion will bring you filial piety to your own strength, rather than saying "My father and I have worked hard to nourish me, you must be filial to them."

Filial piety is derived from the respect and love of the heart, and the best one is the attitude of being accompanied by. If the husband brings filial piety today instead of outsourcing filial piety to his wife, and his feet are large, then the partner can naturally feel it and can enter the other party's family relationship more. Don't let filial piety become a verb or inexplicably add pressure to his partner. It's just that filial piety is not sincere, and parents may not be happy.

The good father-in-law's advice: "Have a grateful heart to his daughter-in-law and wife"

Finally, I recommend an article shared by the artist Bai Yu on his face. Her father told her to "be good to his sister-in-law". The following is an excerpt of some of the internal texts. Interested people can click to continue reading and reading the full text!

Before my sister-in-law married into my family, we were actually just strangers. My mother and I have never given any effort to his life, and we have never educated him or nurtured him.

Then he married into our family, except for your brother, and everyone said to her that she was just a stranger at all. Then you asked or thought that people would help you as a cow and horse, and they would call you dad, what are you worried about?