I took the opportunity to get married and my father was 53 years old and was blinded by myself! Chen Feng is determined to accompany his parents without regrets

Because Chen Feng, who has been red in Asia's food program "A Duck" last year, was invited to return to his alma mater, Mingxin University of Science and Technology as an associate professor. Now, in addition to teaching, one of his jobs is to accompany his parents' life in the future. He laughed and said that he had always been a "job baby", he was 54 years old, and still like a child, "Now I have to carry two old children." But he knew that companionship was the best treatment. As long as time allowed, he would take his parents away, leaving no regrets in his life.

Chen Dong's mother is 77 years old this year. As long as she allows her, she will take her out at work. "I will come out every time and less. As long as she can still leave and move, I will take her." He emphasized, "It's better to be with me than to say that I love you."

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The father had an affair, and he stood up for his mother to the end

He came from a wealthy family, his mother was a daughter of the daughter of Didi, and his father was a young man's thirteenth young master. At the age of 22, my mother met her handsome and upright table tennis father. She didn't care about the family's opposition and got married the next year. However, just when Chen Feng was in high school, his father had an affair.

The original family was unhappy, which allowed him to leave home to work very early until he was 30 years old. Chen Dong decided to take his mother to live with Taipei and become a "job mother" again. He said that his mother's care for him was meticulous. He never cut the fruit. The bedding was always clean and refreshing. He always stood by his mother and held injustice for her life. "She thought she put all the power in her life in the family. Why did she get the reply?"

He always stood by her father and she was not at home for a long time. The two of them had almost no contact or contact. It was not until two years ago that my father returned to Taiwan and found out that he had cancer. He and his mother chose to let go of all their grudges and accept him again. "I saw that my father was old and staggering, and could not treat him like this anymore."

"I know very well that their personality is incompatible and they got married too early, but even if they can't be husband and wife, they can still be friends." After Chen Dong brought his father together, the family of three had been separated for many years and finally lived in the same house. They have their own rooms and their own refrigerators.

However, it is not easy to be with the two old people. He said, "My biggest setback is that I am also a child, and now I have to bring two old children. Sometimes you talk about him going west, and I wonder how I will do this?"

He realized that he could not communicate with his parents who were nearly 80 years old with rationality. "Sometimes, when talking to my father, he would talk about it until he gets angry and be killed by his mother's insanity. I think about it now, I'm just a class, I have to be convinced."

Blind eyes, decided to change the degree of life

Last year, Chen Dong encountered another test in his life. His vitiligo was separated twice, "I'm blind!" It was just the beginning of mosquitoes. With the minor clinic's miscible, the doctor only gave him medicine to lower eye pressure, and mosquitoes turned into vitiligoes.

Fortunately, he met a good doctor who tried his best to treat his eyes. "The doctor said it was impossible to cure it, but at least it can be replenished. It's better than being blind!" After several months of medical treatment, the right eye was better, but the left eye vision was only 0.1.

"It's very hard to get rid of the Internet membrane. I have to lie on my back for three months after I open the knife. This is the burden in my life." He said frustrated: "I don't love myself at all. I just know that I have to do my job well and repeatedly delay the treatment."

Accompany my parents and turn from a mother to a father

"I also have a very bad problem. I'm too tough and thought it was just a minor problem." He said that he never accepted old age, and this time he had to admit that "I'm really old", and that physical health is the most important thing. "I'm still so rich, so I didn't enjoy it."

After a serious illness, he decided to change himself. "I will choose to do what I want to do." He explained: "I used to do things well and do my work, and now I will evaluate why I want to do this."

At the same time, he also enjoyed the days of having his parents with him. He realized: "It was them who accompanied me, not me who accompanied them; I was playing with my parents, and I became a father-in-law from a job."

The teacher was affirmed by his father and was a proud life

Recently, he wrote a warm and touching book "Duck Times — 27 Lettuce Men" based on his years of food experience, which is a reconciliation between himself and his family.

Last year, Chen Dong returned to his alma mater as an associate professor. "My father thought I would return to school as an associate professor, which would make him more respectful than being the king of Asian food." Only then did he say that from his former father, he saw that he was a "useless little girl" and "geting his father's affirmation is the greatest pride in my life."

He understood that his parents would eventually leave him one day. Although he has long been caring about his mother's life and the days of being with his parents, he has also begun to learn a personal life. He likes gardens, "My home has a large terrace, and when I have time, there are different flowers in all seasons. I want to turn each window into a painting that is even more different with the season."

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