"I hope you can travel as happily as possible in the sky!" Dad s prayer can make you feel sour. Parents missed their passing children until the moment they ended their lives.

What is the most painful person? Many people would say it was "losing a child". A man released a photo on his face book "On the Road Observation Institute", which attracted the attention of many netizens. The photo is a prayer card written by a father, wishing my deceased daughter a happy birthday at her 50-year-old. This is a lifelong thought. Writer Huang Chunming, financial expert Xia Weifen, and lawyer Ji Qiuqiu have all shared the great pain of parents losing their children.

A man released a photo on his face book "On the Road Observation Academy", which was taken by him at a 106-year light meeting, which attracted the attention of many netizens.

The photo is a prayer card written by a father. Dad wrote "I hope you will have as much happiness in the sky as you like in the sky", and the bracket at the end of the article is marked "February 9 is exactly your 50th anniversary", and signed "Dad's name 106.2.9".

My parents died and buried in the mountains. The child died, the burial of the heart is the longing of an old father for his deceased daughter. He thought that if his daughter was still alive, he would be 50 years old this year. A netizen replied: "Parents die, bury the head of the mountain. Children die, bury the head of the heart." In just one sentence, writing the deep sorrow of losing a child is a kind of tragedy different from the death of other people.

It is not that other people are not worried when they die, and that children will feel sad when they send their parents away. There is no time for the tragedy of losing love. It is hard for you to estimate when you will recover, or maybe the pain will last for the rest of your life, from intense to calm, but it never disappears.

To parents, losing children may be overwhelmed by guilt, because it has always been their responsibility and sense of mission to care for children. Originally, parents imagined watching their children grow up, thinking that they would leave the child first. And most parents will bet on their children with hopes and dreams. I never thought that children would leave one step earlier than them, stay at a certain age forever, and never grow up again. Who would have no time to imagine the possibility of such tragedy? After losing it, all my dreams also disappear.

Because of regret, I always think that if I were my parents, I would pay more attention to what I did and do more, would my children not leave so early. Maybe, you will start to get angry and think that God is actually too unfair.

A feeling that is always missing the flesh of the heart

Lawyer Liu Qiuyuan once wrote on his face that after his elder brother passed away, his mother's sorrow:

The Mid-Autumn Festival is coming, and I think of my mother. It’s not because I can’t see her, but because she often thinks of her brother, who was suddenly infarcted when she was working a few years ago. As long as she thinks of her brother, she will fall over and secretly fall her eyes.

So, we didn't even mention my brother in front of her, and when her voice was choked, I had to find a way to have a love-style dress. But, no matter what, missing one person is a fact. Every time she thinks and crys, it is a feeling that she never loses the flesh of her heart.

The sad writer Huang Chunming, who looked at the vacant space, also wrote an extremely animated article "Guo Jun will not come back to eat food", by writing his wife to explain the huge void of losing children:

Mom, she knew that you didn't come back to eat food

She didn't want to burn it

She and Datong Electric also forgot how much rice should you add?

I only realized today that

Mother was born to be a food for you. Now you don’t come back to eat

Mother has nothing to do

Mother doesn’t want to do anything

Even if you don’t want to eat

Finally, I wrote: "If you don’t come back to eat, who is not sad when you look at that empty space?" As a parent, he feels sore in his nose.

Missing me will stop until the moment I die

After my son passed away, Xia Yifen, a financial expert, wrote her mood on the blog:

Sending off the child, I felt a pain of collapse and cracking again, which was different from the previous few days. The child left, my pain did not stop. I encountered many firsts, and the first time I didn't call him up The first time I didn't have to help him prepare breakfast, the first time I didn't wait for his hug to finish class, and the first time I didn't have his Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, Father's Day, Mother's Day, New Year's Day, Summer and Winter Holidays, …

These first time, they will be like thousands of arrows piercing the heart, directly stabbing my brain and heart. I have a strong feeling that I can't survive! I know that missing children will stop until the moment I die!

Every word and sentence, even parents will not bear to see it. The article puts these statements of the hurt parents not to gain everyone’s eyes, but to try to understand. This kind of pain in life needs to be expressed very much. If you ask, what should the people around you do? It should be a quiet company.

See netizens who share my father's blessing on his daughter's 50th birthday, so that we can also bless his daughter.

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