My daughter-in-law was forced to divorce by her mother-in-law when she was infertile, but her ex-husband asked her to be sick and help her take care of her! Expert: "2 major types of mother-in-la

As the saying goes, "There are three kinds of unfilial piety, and no one is the ultimate." This view has affected many elders so far, and they are very committed to not breaking the tradition. For wives who are the only one or eldest son in the family, if they do not have children, they usually suffer great pressure.

In addition, in Chinese society, problems related to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are often discussed. The difficulty lies in the fact that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is too broad. If you encounter a daughter-in-law who is difficult to have children, under the constraints of traditional concepts, it will often appear in an insolvent state. According to the Apple Daily report, a netizen posted a message in the "Leaks Commune" that she had not become pregnant for five years. She went to the hospital for inspection and found that she was not easy to have children, so her mother-in-law forced her to divorce her solo child.

After many years of marriage, even though there are many unwilling and difficult times, she can only sign and agree to divorce in the face of the reality that cannot be changed for the sake of her efforts. He even lost the focus of life because of this. Fortunately, he was encouraged by his family and friends, so he started a new life again.

My mother-in-law was sick and even asked her divorced daughter-in-law to take care of her. After she got rid of the marriage, she lived in the way she liked and had a job she liked. After get off work, she sometimes went to exercise and sometimes read books to make herself feel more, and freely arranged her time. Until last month, her ex-husband suddenly called her and said with a message: "My mother is sick, you come and take care of her."

It is very habitual for the child to listen to her mother since she was young. Since she is already an adult, she should have the ability to think independently. The ex-husband actually expressed directly: "My mother said that we have been married for 5 years, which is also considered our love." I have been treating you for 5 years. Since you have not been able to continue my family, can you help me take care of the sick person? "

Faced with such unreasonable requests, she replied angryly: "Mr. X, do you have any malfunction? We are divorced, then your mother is not my mother. You have no qualifications to ask me to do things, and I don't owe you." "Sorry, I'm busy talking to my new boyfriend and having sex with you. You can handle your family's affairs yourself!" This matter was put online, which aroused the enthusiasm of many netizens: "Who gave him the courage? You can say this." "When you do well, you have to divorce if you can't have a child, what's the mood? It's too bullying."

The mother's education has the deepest impact on children

in one In a family, mothers are the person who has the most influence on children's education. In fact, girls can carefully observe what kind of educational type of mother-in-law is in the future. For example, in the above cases, everything is "my mother said ……" such as mothers who do not have personal ideas. Girls should be careful.

Two-sex expert Li Fangbei said that the mother-in-law is mainly divided into two types:

◎Everything must be done

1. All big and small things should be handled by your son, eating, going home time, and matching clothes.

2. Check frequently during the appointment.

3. When you are not careful, you will say, "Oh, why is my son so thin?", "Why is my son's face not good recently? What do you cook for him?"

→ When facing this kind of mother, the only way is to take care of her husband as a son. You have to do better than her to get her approval.

◎The personality is open and shaped

1. Mom has more open ideas and will also arrange her own time.

2. Give your child an independent space for growth and let him handle his own affairs.

3. For the choice of the son’s other half, respect is the principle and treat the daughter-in-law as a daughter.

→ This kind of mother-in-law is easy to communicate and get along with. When a girl meets this kind of mother-in-law, she must cherish it!

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