8 things to teach me about brain teasers! You don t have to think positively at any time, but don t forget to be happy. If you encounter anxiety, you will let go.

It doesn’t matter if you take your child to “know yourself”, or if you don’t know yourself so much! In "Brain Teaser 2", let's embark on this journey of exploration together!

9 years ago, the plot of "Brain Teaser Turnover" tells the story of the little girl Levitra who moved from her familiar home and developed a kind of uneasy feeling in the face of the new social environment. She was happy, worried, angry, anger, annoyed and shocked in the brain, and it also became a classic in the minds of many people.

"Brain Teaser 2" sets the background to 2 years later. The adolescence of Lili is more sensitive and fragile. There are more friends in her brain, such as anxiety, envy, shyness and slutiness! As an ice hockey player, she is about to participate in summer training. Not only can she get close to her admired sister "Wal", but she also has the chance to be selected into the team and become a part of them. This means: her love will change more, and the joy, anxiety, anxiety, admiration and other things in her brain must work hard to help her face these new environments and new challenges.

In the first episode of "Brain Teaser Transformation", the movie church we want to "embrace all emotions". The second episode is about bringing adolescent children to "grow up" and even more about this world, and "know yourself." After the release of this movie, it has received so many praises, giving people more reflection and touch. Let’s see what things can my father and children discuss after watching this movie?

1. You can get angry, but it is more valuable to get angry.

When the child gets out of control because of anger, the mother often speaks: "Don't cry!" or use a very suppressed verb to tell the child to be cold immediately. They rarely teach children how to deal with their vitality

When children realize that they cannot control their emotions, and see their parents anxious and disappointed, the children are at a loss, which is more likely to cause them to lose control.

People often show the benefits of stable emotions, and often post a bad tag with anger: including that you are not mature enough to control yourself and not meditate others…… but in the first episode, Leli's father and mother can handle her emotions because she understands her anger.

We will make a sound from anger, and anger means we are unwilling to give up and settle down. If done properly, it will even make changes to the glued state.

Ineffective gas is internal consumption, but if the gas can help you achieve your goal, then this anger is worth it!

2. When you encounter anxiety, learn to let go!

Ajiao (Jiaoqing) The new character often needs to grow, and the frequency of its appearance will be higher. Enjoyment has its energy, which can make us think more comprehensively and do better, but at the same time it will bring greater reaction when encountering setbacks, making us less confident.

In the movie, in order to help Leli make good friends after entering high school, Ajiao has established a lot of value that hurt her, and Leli also made a lot of mistakes due to social anxiety.

And the most important scene in the film happened when the anxiety broke out. The drop of eye drops flowing from the corner of Ajiao's eyes made people want to hug it and hug himself, who had been injured because of anxiety.

Once the anxiety is activated, it is difficult to stop. Like a stall train, it becomes more and more difficult to hold on, making people feel tired and lonely, causing heavy pressure. So in the end, Ajiao in Leli’s brain got out of control! She became the center of the typhoon circle, and Lele finally walked into the main console and told Ajiao: You must let go.

"Let go." It's not just a child. When my father saw this sentence, he should be able to get the best.

The anxiety requires experience and accumulation before knowing how to deal with it. When we grew up, we knew that things in the world will not always be smooth, we will not always be careless, nor will we always pretend to ignore them. Only by letting go of excessive anxiety, taking a step back, and accepting your powerlessness calmly can you achieve peace.

3. It's really tiring to keep going positively and positively. Why can't the negative emotions be eliminated and out of Leli's brain? Because it is actually very important! All kinds of emotions can help us survive better in the world, and it can save lives at important moments.

For example, Ah Moe is helping us resolve embarrassment and know how to retreat, Ah Moe is helping us see better people and things, encouraging us to pursue better, Ah Jiao is helping us plan for the future to have motivation, Ah Moe allows our brains to take a break! Sometimes we can not work too hard, sometimes we can take a break and let go of everything, but in fact we can also be considered a charging method.

The most attractive thing about the first and second episodes of "Brain Teaser Turnover" is that it does not view every emotion in an absolute sense of positive or negative attitude. Sometimes, excessive positive sometimes turns into a poisonous chicken soup. Real happiness is to move forward with worries, anger, and trance.

4. Am I not good yet? Among all comparisons, the new self

Dad and mother often remind their children: don't compare. Because it will make the child too worried about gains and losses, and even lose confidence. But when children are with their classmates in school, comparison is like air and cannot be avoided. In the movie: My sister's football skills are more harmful than Leli, and the music that her classmates like is cooler…… Should Leli listen to their music and wear similar clothes to them, and have a common thread? But is that something she really likes? "Am I still me?"

The children in the kindergarten may be full of confidence, thinking that I am the best and the most harmful. But as I entered the campus, the confidence gradually disappeared, and the comparison of scores, social choices and being selected made the children begin to have conflicts. Everyone hopes that they are liked and affirmed. But when everyone's evaluation of me was not as good as expected. , self-expectation and inferiority complexity arise intrinsic conflicts.

The various comparisons of adolescence are also the process of Leli exploring herself. Finally, Leley overturned the initial setting of the movie and accepted that she no longer had a good side: I can be selfish or kind, I am not good, but I am a good person, I need to be sociable, but I also want to be myself, I am scared, but I am brave, I am weak, but I am strong.

When all the emotions were hugged each other, Lili finally stopped being anxious. She honestly faced her friends and confessed her "true words" to her friends, which also made her know herself more and gain understanding.

5. You don’t have to think positively at all times, but don’t forget that the joyfulness is something that everyone wants to have. She makes us every day a new and wonderful day! However, when you are anxious and worried, you will often lose your brain. At this time, you will definitely feel powerless.

In the eyes of parents, children should be the most careless and happy, but not every child can have such personality traits that are positively thinking at the same time. Sometimes, we must also give the joy in our brains a break!

It is like anger comforting Lele: "Lele, you have made a lot of mistakes. You will make mistakes in the future, but we will give up the words you give up together." When we walked away from anxiety, worry, and fucked. Don't forget to find happiness again. When you are in need of energy, think about the joy in your heart, and treat it as the glimmer of light at the entrance of the dark cave.

6. It is better to focus on things that are uncontrollable than to focus on the controllable situation.

There is a very interesting setting in "Brain Teaser 2", that is, when Laili is anxious, Ajiao will continue to create bad dreams to give Laili who is ready to sleep, making her think about it everywhere, anxious to sleep!

Aggio has a theory about this, and she said, "We should look to the future and draw out all the mistakes he may have made." If such thoughts can help you avoid misfortune, then this anxiety will help you. But if you keep fantasizing about the worst results and make you feel restless, it will be of no benefit to you. It’s better to live in the present.

Just like in the movie Ajiao starts thinking about the next incident, Lele tells Ajiao: "Those anxious things won't happen immediately." Finally, put it on a sofa chair, please don't worry about the future and plan at the moment.

After my father and mother watched this with her child, she might as well ask her child: "Have you ever had a similar feeling? One day, when your Ajiao appears, do you have any way to calm him down?"

Better to control what you can't control first. For example, Lely has no way to control whether the coach records her as a hockey team, but she can always prepare the Spanish test she will take tomorrow! As for what you can't control, just let it go!

7. When we grow up, we may be less happy

When we are young, we are comparing with our classmates, when we grow up, we are comparing with our colleagues, and when we are free, we are comparing with people who are not familiar with social networks.

The sound of "I'm not good" will appear more and more during the growth process.

Although Lele encourages everyone: "When all beliefs are combined, good things will be produced." We can select the person we want to be: I am kind, I am a talkative friend, I am strong and brave, I am a good person, but in life, I cannot avoid having moments that I feel messed up. At this time, it is very important to face negative emotions without escaping and coexist with negative emotions.

As you grow up, you may have less happiness, but it doesn't matter. Allow yourself to feel it. Every emotion can dance with the ups and downs of the emotions, and you can also enjoy the emotions. When we are no longer controlled by emotions, you will grow up!

8. Abnormal emotions also have meanings

In "Brain Teaser 2", when I saw various new emotions that were moved in, I wish I could throw these new emotions out! At this time, Lele stopped his anger and said, "The new emotions coming in from moving are useful."

This also reminds parents that when children develop various new emotions during the growth process, we often forget to help them understand and sort out them. Every emotion actually has its function. Even fear and fear can help us help us away from danger; shy emotions also let us know how to take a step back when we are embarrassed; envy emotions will keep us moving forward. "Every emotion has its use", they are necessary in life.

When discussing this movie with your children, your father should also observe his reaction to different emotions, maintain open discussions, and not express prejudice to a certain emotion. Because children will find that you will complain about a certain emotion through reading your expression, and they will also not accept that emotion, causing pressure.

In our generation, many people have not been taught how to face emotions during their growth. So, learn with your kids through this movie! "Emotion is just love" and "your love does not represent you", embracing love and observing yourself is the best lesson this movie has been for us and our children.